{"id":12413,"date":"2013-01-16T08:00:42","date_gmt":"2013-01-16T13:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.shareaholic.com\/?p=12413"},"modified":"2014-05-13T11:19:30","modified_gmt":"2014-05-13T15:19:30","slug":"blog-comment-etiquette","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/blog-comment-etiquette\/","title":{"rendered":"The 11 Do\u2019s and Don\u2019ts for Writing and Managing Blog Comments"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_12422\" style=\"width: 349px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/5342677857_5f033b3cc7.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12422\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-12422    \" alt=\"etiquette\" src=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/5342677857_5f033b3cc7.jpg\" width=\"339\" height=\"226\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/5342677857_5f033b3cc7.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/5342677857_5f033b3cc7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/5342677857_5f033b3cc7-400x266.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 339px) 100vw, 339px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-12422\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/52498245@N03\/5342677857\/\">Jenn Durfey<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/compfight.com\">Compfight<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by\/2.0\/\">cc<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<p>In the blogosphere, comments are one of the best ways to connect with others in your community and measure the engagement of your content. That being said, writing a 500-1,500 word blog post doesn\u2019t necessarily make you a pro at handling comments on your posts (and elsewhere on the internet). Commenting is tricky.<\/p>\n<p>As you grow your audience, you have to learn to properly cultivate discussion on your own posts and contribute to conversations on other people\u2019s blogs. Navigating the comments section is not always black and white\u2014it can be difficult on your own to figure out what\u2019s acceptable and what isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>To start you off on the right path, here are 11 do\u2019s and don\u2019ts you should follow when writing and managing comments.<\/p>\n<h2>On Other People\u2019s Blogs<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_12430\" style=\"width: 452px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/2727357334_5b5c89ae36_b.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12430\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-12430   \" alt=\"other people's blogs\" src=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/2727357334_5b5c89ae36_b.jpg\" width=\"442\" height=\"332\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/2727357334_5b5c89ae36_b.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/2727357334_5b5c89ae36_b-533x400.jpg 533w, https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/2727357334_5b5c89ae36_b-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/2727357334_5b5c89ae36_b-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/2727357334_5b5c89ae36_b-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 442px) 100vw, 442px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-12430\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/8998833@N07\/2727357334\/\">Jason-Morrison<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/compfight.com\">Compfight<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc\/2.0\/\">cc<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<h3 class=\"sub header\">1. Do: Add something relevant to the conversation<\/h3>\n<p>Like all other content you are producing, each comment you submit <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/2012\/07\/how-to-create-shareable-content-wordcamp\/\">shouldn\u2019t <em>just<\/em> add noise<\/a>. Always think about whether your comment is adding to the discussion or not. That being said, you don\u2019t have to be a guru with every comment you submit\u2014you can comment with a funny joke or story relating to the article or even just to thank the blogger.<\/p>\n<p>Even if your blogging goals are about increasing traffic to your site and you want to use blog comments to expand your network, the substance of your content shouldn\u2019t be overly self-promotional. You\u2019ll gain more pageviews by being helpful and relevant in the content of your comments of another blog post than by <em>only<\/em> talking about your latest blogging project. Unless that project <em>directly<\/em> relates to the topic at hand, leave it out of your comment.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"sub header\">2. Don\u2019t: Leave links in other people\u2019s comments unless it\u2019s relevant<\/h3>\n<p>Though this point piggybacks off the previous point, I thought it deserved its own point because it\u2019s that important. Do NOT leave random links in your comments to your blog. Other bloggers recognize when commenters are just trying to get a link back to their own site.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, I have seen people leave comments with a link to a blog post they\u2019ve written and it wasn\u2019t spam. Check out this comment by <a href=\"http:\/\/rsmithing.com\/\">Richard Smith<\/a> on our post, \u201c<a title=\"Permanent Link to Top 5 Tools to Create Images for Pinterest\" href=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/2012\/09\/top-blogging-tools-pinterest\/\">Top 5 Tools to Create Images for Pinterest<\/a>\u201d to see how to do this right:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Screen-Shot-2013-01-16-at-5.36.41-AM.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-12419\" alt=\"Richard Smith Comment\" src=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Screen-Shot-2013-01-16-at-5.36.41-AM.png\" width=\"494\" height=\"398\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Screen-Shot-2013-01-16-at-5.36.41-AM.png 618w, https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Screen-Shot-2013-01-16-at-5.36.41-AM-497x400.png 497w, https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Screen-Shot-2013-01-16-at-5.36.41-AM-300x241.png 300w, https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Screen-Shot-2013-01-16-at-5.36.41-AM-373x300.png 373w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 494px) 100vw, 494px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Yes, he linked to his own content, but the blog post was relevant and added to the discussion at hand.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"sub header\">3. Do: Share your comment on social media<\/h3>\n<p>If, and only if, your comment is something you would share on social media <i>anyway<\/i>, go ahead and push it to your favorite networks. Used correctly, pushing comments to social media is a great way to simultaneously give a shout out to the author of the blog while sparking a discussion with your comment.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"sub header\">4. Don\u2019t: Write a blog post of your own in the comments<\/h3>\n<p>While you do want to bring value to the post whenever you write a comment, make sure you aren\u2019t piggybacking off the original blog post and publishing a blog post of your own. It\u2019s okay\u2014and encouraged\u2014to add your thoughts, but you don\u2019t want to dominate the post with your comment. It\u2019s fine to have a comment on the longer side, but cut yourself off before you hit the 500 word mark, please.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"sub header\">5. Don\u2019t: Comment and leave forever<\/h3>\n<p>Once you hit submit, make sure you\u2019re coming back to see if people have responded to you. Many commenting systems have subscription options so you\u2019ll be notified if someone responds to your comment, but if not, set reminders for yourself to check back during the day. Comments are a dialogue\u2014don\u2019t leave the other person hanging!<\/p>\n<h2>On Your Own Blog<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_12431\" style=\"width: 410px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/3433170283_66423833d6.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12431\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-12431 \" alt=\"your blog\" src=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/3433170283_66423833d6.jpg\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/3433170283_66423833d6.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/3433170283_66423833d6-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/3433170283_66423833d6-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-12431\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/91695677@N00\/3433170283\/\">Helga Weber<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/compfight.com\">Compfight<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nd\/2.0\/\">cc<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<h3 class=\"sub header\">6. Do: Block off time to respond to comments<\/h3>\n<p>This is one of my very bad habits. As soon as I get a notification in my email that someone commented on the Shareaholic blog, I tend to drop whatever I\u2019m doing to answer or respond to it.<\/p>\n<p>For most bloggers (including myself), this is unrealistic\u2014you\u2019re trying to juggle a billion other projects throughout the day, so you don\u2019t have time to jump in and out of comments all day. Block out 10 minutes every few hours to check in on the comments\u2014jumping in and out really cuts down on your productivity. You need all the energy you can muster to keep cranking out awesome content!<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"sub header\">7. Do: Respond to almost everyone<\/h3>\n<p>You know how amazing it feels when another blogger (especially one you admire) takes the time to respond to your post, so pay it forward on your own blog. You should be responding to almost everyone to strengthen your relationships with existing readers and fostering new ones.<\/p>\n<p>There are a number of situations in which you might not respond to <em>every single comment<\/em>. It\u2019s okay to not respond when the comment is:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Blatant Spam<\/li>\n<li>Trolls<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>As you grow your blog, you may not have the time to respond to each and every one of your 3,000,000 comments, but it\u2019s still a great practice to respond to people when they comment. They took time out of their day to read your post and leave their thoughts\u2014the least you could do is thank them for stopping by the blog.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"sub header\">8. Don\u2019t: Respond to criticism with anger<\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s really easy to get attached to your writing. After slaving over <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/2012\/04\/10-unexpected-ways-to-come-up-with-fresh-blog-post-ideas\/\">brainstorming ideas<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/2011\/12\/fight-writers-block\/\">writing your post<\/a> and then <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shareaholic.com\/blog\/2013\/01\/blog-post-editing-checklist\/\">heavily editing it<\/a>, there is nothing more frustrating than to get negative feedback.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026but you should never show your frustration. It\u2019s okay to respond to the comments and be firm with your opinion, but it\u2019s important to remember that comments aren\u2019t always about stroking your ego. You may even learn a thing or two from a negative comment to make your blog even better!<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"sub header\">9. Don\u2019t: Overmoderate comments<\/h3>\n<p>People often blast big brands for moderating and deleting negative posts on blogs and social media, but bloggers can be just as guilty of interfering on their own blogs.<\/p>\n<p>Save the delete buttons for spam and trolling comments\u2014don\u2019t delete people who disagree with you. If you\u2019ve spent some time building a community around your blog, your readers may even respond to the haters before you can!<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"sub header\">10. Do: Keep track of who is commenting and repay the favor<\/h3>\n<p>Try keeping mental notes of who comments on your blog so you repay the favor down the road. This is a great way to form relationships with your readers and other bloggers you admire who stop by to say hey on your corner of the internet. Similar to point #8, you don\u2019t <i>have<\/i> to comment on everyone\u2019s blogs who leaves a comment on your blog, but it\u2019s a general best practice that will serve you well.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"sub header\">11. Don\u2019t: Make it hard to post<\/h3>\n<p>If your readers are coming all the way to your site, reading your posts and then thinking of commenting, DON\u2019T make it difficult for them to do so. Get rid of your capchas, trick questions and excessive authentication forms and use a commenting system like <a href=\"http:\/\/disqus.com\/\">Disqus<\/a> or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.livefyre.com\/\">Livefyre<\/a>. Besides being incredibly easy to use, both of those commenting platforms integrate with social media, which can help expand your blog post\u2019s reach.<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, comments are a way to form relationships with other bloggers. They are crucial to growing your following, so be sure that you\u2019re not missing out on any of these crucial etiquette tips.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Do you have any personal commenting policies? Agree (or disagree) with any mentioned here? I\u2019d love to hear your thoughts in our own comment section.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the blogosphere, comments are one of the best ways to connect with others in your community and measure the engagement of your content. 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